MM: {MeSha Moments}: #67~The Word HELP!

What does it mean? It sounds great to HEAR when someone wants to HELP you. The load of bullshit on my plate that can be relieved by just a little bit of... HELP. If someone HELPS, that means that I don't have to do it. HELP! Help can be a wonderful thing if given by the right people...
But when I have heard the word HELP in the past of an unknown party and the offering of someone's HELP is accepted, it always goes wrong. This HELP comes with a tag of intentions that are not revealed until it's too late. You've accepted the HELP, the terms were agreed, the HELP is given and a bunch of blood-soaked marbles come rolling out of the helper's pockets ie. HIDDEN AGENDAS!
It is my advice and experience to avoid this random HELP from a person you don't know and have never met. Things can go real wrong real fast. Keep in mind that everyone deserves a shot at being on the winning team and maybe their intentions are greater than you could ever imagine, but are you willing to…

MM: {MeSha Moments}: #66~The Manipulation of The Bull

In the beginning, there is love, care, tenderness and understanding. The relationship is fresh and new. As the beginning grows into a middle, a bond has been secured and the loyalty is visible. But as the end comes near, a certain stale taste lingers on the tongue and the appreciation has fizzled away. It's time to say goodbye.
You will see what I did here when I explain further and you read on...
Instead of hurting someone's feelings, you must force their hand to break the seal of a bottle formed. The bull is governed by the red fabric and made to go a different route. But this was not a sexual relationship. It was a bond in business! LET GO! -Viva Ze Bool

MM: {MeSha Moments}: #64~The Cluttered Mind, The Messy Life

You would think that it all begins in a room, the pile of stuff, the junk you forgot to clean, the mess you made. Or is it the mess you allowed others to make, after parties, after dinners, after conversations? Either way, you have to stop and clean it up before you move on to something else. You have to clear away anything that doesn't belong or doesn't belong to you.... But are we still talking about a ROOM?

Clutter starts in your mind but it can expel or spill over into a room, leaving it dirty and hard to focus on what you need to do. It is very difficult to clean and organize items in your life if your mind is running 8 different ways and 3 types of crazy.

Your clutter may have began long ago or recently so let me hand you a broom and dust pan, maybe a mop? Let's think back...After the parties were toxic people who made their way into your personal space and somehow found a common ground and a reason to stick around. When dinner was over, their were no dishes, just asso…

MM: {MeSha Moments}: #63~The Misuse of the Word TIME

TIME. Many of us use the word TIME out of context. TIME... Tick, Tock, Tick, Tock... We treat time as if it doesn't exist in the lives of others until it is YOUR time that is being utilized. We fail to take into account the the time is others is just as, if not more, valuable than yours. TIME. Did you schedule a time or made a TIME COMMITMENT that you chose not to agree to or dedicate to keeping your word about that specified time? Or do you lead others to believe that they do not fit into your time or maybe they don't fit into your life. Be honest with people about TIME by just saying I DON'T WANT TO. I CAN'T DO THAT. I WILL NOT COMMIT DOING THIS OR THAT. Don't chose to blame things on TIME or create and invisible schedule to avoid assisting another. Just say NAW BITCH! I don't want to. But many of us will let TIME take the fall. Time is doing it's part in life just by committing to the hours and minutes of a clock, by adding those hours to create days, by…

MM: {MeSha Moments}: #62~The Red Lie

You've heard of the 'little white lie'? A little white lie is said to be a minor, polite or harmless lie. A white lie can be excused because it doesn't cause great harm. But we all know that those little lies can grow into bigger lies just to cover up the little lies...
So what is A RED LIE? This type of lie falls into a different category and for some reason is found to be acceptable and tolerated....A red lie is a statement told with complete awareness that the other person knows the statement to be false. This type of lie is often told and accepted to avoid the fallout that might occur from dealing with reality.
People are known to tell these lies, knowing their poker face is visible and hoping the other party believes the bullshit and to keep from hurting the other person while we sit, listen and accept but in our heads KNOW.... YOU ARE A LIAR!!!! Why do we not correct this behavior? well... to avoid hurting the other person? This has to stop. Here is where you CA…

MM: {MeSha Moments}: #61~The New Aged Cat Or Catty Niggas?

There is a code. Code of the streets. Code amongst men. Code in business. Even a code between companions. But what happened? Somewhere along the line and throughout the ages, the code got lost. Women became more street savvy and more apt to keep the code.... especially in SILENCE.

In this day and time, men have become weak minded and ready to talk and chat and gossip. Have a tea party while you're at it motherfucker! It's as if the balls have not dropped so many men are still seeking approval. Conversations or sit downs should be considered sacred and confidential. Instead they turn into what should have been a public seminar because everyone knows what was said.

The streets are now filled with snitches and gossipers. The pillow talk of the private bedrooms are being revealed. Even the contracts of business are a topic of discussion at random dinner tables. Who is loyal and who is worthy of my company? My work ethic? My love??? Why are women being made to keep the code strong…

MM: {MeSha Moments}: #60~Can't Turn A Hoe Into A Housewife?

You can't turn a hoe into a housewife, as the saying goes. But who said she was a hoe? Many make the mistake of judging a woman based off of her clothes, freedom of speech or confidence with her sexuality. But in this day and time, these are the women that men are secretly looking for...

You meet two women. Hopefully dating them at different intervals, which we all know damn well you are not, you find that one is reserved, conservative in her style of dress, professional in manner. Yet she's preserving that vagina like canned apples on a Winter shelf. The other, holding a different level of security in her sexual needs, is up front and honest about her intentions with you. She's professional in her business, sassy at the mouth, a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets. They are both WOMEN regardless of their choice of how to address the dick! One just chooses not to waste time. This one is publicly judged but privately favored! 

In some circumstances, men would rather…