MM: {MeSha Moments}: #62~The Red Lie


You've heard of the 'little white lie'? A little white lie is said to be a minor, polite or harmless lie. A white lie can be excused because it doesn't cause great harm. But we all know that those little lies can grow into bigger lies just to cover up the little lies...

So what is A RED LIE? This type of lie falls into a different category and for some reason is found to be acceptable and tolerated....A red lie is a statement told with complete awareness that the other person knows the statement to be false. This type of lie is often told and accepted to avoid the fallout that might occur from dealing with reality.

People are known to tell these lies, knowing their poker face is visible and hoping the other party believes the bullshit and to keep from hurting the other person while we sit, listen and accept but in our heads KNOW.... YOU ARE A LIAR!!!! Why do we not correct this behavior? well... to avoid hurting the other person? This has to stop. Here is where you CALL THAT ASS OUT! The purpose of a call out is to stop the person from doing it again and to others!
 
Believe it or not, these red lies can cause a signal in the brain to go off..... like a lie detector. Be aware, acknowledge and call out whenever it seems feasible. As for you 'red liars', just stop it. The only person you're trying to convince is yourself! 





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